You and your guy have been dating for a few months, and then it happens: a wedding invitation arrives...with a plus-one. You've agreed to go together: fantastic! (But also potentially scary.) If you're a new couple or just nervous about making a good impression, don't worry! All you have to do is follow a few simple rules of being a great wedding date:
1. Dress your best.
It's time to bring your elegant A game. Just remember three rules: Adhere to the dress code, avoid wearing white (but you knew that), and if you're attending a religious ceremony, cover your bare arms at the ceremony. If you have questions, it's perfectly acceptable to ask! Wear something flattering that shows your classy side (think: wife material), not to mention something you can dance in with your date.
2. Alcohol is best in moderation.
As we've all learned at least once, an open bar is both a blessing and a curse. If you plan on drinking, remember to pace yourself. Finish off a glass of water between alcoholic drinks so you can keep your cool. You want to have a good time and make sure your date has a good time (taking care of you when you're sick all night is bound to be a buzzkill).
3. Mix and mingle.
It can be awkward to be at a wedding where you don't know anyone, so introduce yourself to other guests If you're feeling out of place, remember to smile—everyone wants to get to know the girl with the big smile! You'll send a positive message about your independence by mingling on your own and allowing your date to do the same (guys don't like to feel like they're babysitting you). On the flip side, if he's your plus-one, don't forget to introduce him to guests so he has a few people other than you to talk to.
4. Be fun.
The key word of the night is celebrate. Participate in the dances at the reception, goofy as they might be. How often do you get to limbo or do the electric slide, anyway? Let yourself have fun, and your date will follow suit (or at least be amused). The bride and groom spent months planning their big day and are kind enough to have you and your date there, so get out there and take your date for a twirl.
Who's got a wedding coming up this summer? Is your guy bringing you, or are you bringing him?