Despite what you may have been told, "not every girl grew up dreaming of her wedding or dressing up as a bride for Halloween," says Kelly Heyn, owner of SociaLife Event Planning in New Jersey. Some women just don't dig wedding planning—whether they're not innately organized, don't have the time to dedicate to the task, or simply can't stand planning a fete for which they'll be the center of attention—and they can dread every step toward their big day. But even the most reluctant brides can learn to love wedding planning with a few tweaks to their tasks. "The first step to enjoying it is to admit it is hard and work on a realistic game plan based on you and your partners strengths," says Viva Max Kaley, a New York wedding planner and the creator of Viva Max Weddings. Here's how you can do just that. 1\. Know yourself and plan accordingly. The strengths and weaknesses you exhibit at work are the same you'll show in wedding planning, says Kaley—and the key is to know how to use them to your advantage. "Approach your planning being honest about what you are good at and where you need to ask![]()
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