If shopping for your own family is tough, then shopping for your groom’s family can be downright excruciating—especially if you’re not super close with them just yet. You want to get them something to acknowledge that you’ll be joining their ranks, but you don’t want any raised eyebrows or a stiff, “Um? Thank you?” when they unwrap your gift.
Never fear: To put you at ease, we rounded up 13 totally appropriate gifts that everyone from his dad to his kid sister will adore. All you have to do is wrap them and fill out the tags.
For his mom, a dainty vase.
Mom Vase from Uncommon Goods, $32.
a petite desk calendar.
Gold Foil Desk Calendar from Schoolhouse Electric & Supply Co., $28.
or a trio of modern planters.
Boxcar Planter Set from Uncommon Goods, $ 62.
For his dad, a watch that’s timeless and stylish. 
Timex Weekender Cordura Watch from Urban Outfitters, $50.
a quirky bookmark, since he’ll never switch to an e-reader. 
Tom Dixon Tool the Bookworm Quill from Beam, $16.50.
or a gadget that will make him love grilling even more.
Handle-Mount Grill Light from Brookstone, $39.99.
For the two of them, a luxe throw that they’ll have forever.
Nisswa Stripe Wool Throw in Black from Faribault Woolen Mill Co., $190.
For his elementary-school-age sibling, a cute critter to craft. 
Bo the Rainbow Creature Kit from Uncommon Goods, $18.
or a collection of your favorite childhood games.
Children’s Card Games from Restoration Hardware, $12.50.
For his high-school-age sister, words of encouragement. 
Appliqued Inspiration Pillow Cover and Insert from RH Teen, $42.
or a chic way to drown out mom and dad.
Pastel Peach Floral Headphones from Ankit, $29.99.
For his college-age brother, everything he needs to play poker host properly. 
Texas Hold ’Em Poker Set from Urban Outfitters, $54.
or ambient lighting that doubles as a toy. 
Building Blocks of Light from ModCloth, $54.99.